The General: A Painful, Aching Rise to the Top

Julia K. Bono
Monrovia, Liberia - Although she rose through the ranks to be a brigadier general in Liberia’s army, Julia K. Bono didn’t want to dwell on that accomplishment. She operates an orphanage and is now in a position of influence as an aide de camp to Ellen Johnson-Sirleaf, Liberia’s president. But even that level of influence didn’t seem to be what arrested her concentration.
Instead, she seemed most passionate, most achingly transparent when she discussed — over and over again – her gratitude to have survived the nearly 15 years of civil strife that rocked the very foundation of this country – and of her life.
“The war brought out the worst in people here,” she said. “I saw things I thought I would never see. I was forced to go places I had never been. And I ate things I never thought I would eat. And I did things to survive that I thought I would never do.”
Everyone here who survived the Liberian civil war, which ended in 2003, has a story of pain and of their box-seat view of unspeakable horror. But Ms. Bono’s is particularly striking. She joined the Army in her early 20s. She rose through the ranks, from sergeant, to captain, to major, to lieutenant colonel. In 1980, President William Tolbert was overthrown and killed by Sergeant Samuel Doe after widespread riots over food prices. It was a coup whose aftermath would ravage her very existence, as it did all Liberians.
By the late 1980s, the country’s economic collapse culminated in civil war when Charles Taylor’s militia, the National Patriotic Front of Liberia, overran much of the countryside, entering Monrovia in 1990. Soon after, Mr. Doe was executed and the fighting intensified as the rebels splintered, battling each other, the Liberian army and West African peacekeepers.
“It became terrifying because you didn’t know who to trust. You didn’t know if the soldier next to you might actually kill you. It was complete chaos,” Ms. Bono said, explaining that tribal rivalry had infected the ranks of the country’s military, causing soldier to turn against soldier. “People lived like animals, doing whatever they felt they had to do to survive,” she said. “Young children carried guns and killed people, just for no reason. People started killing other people the way you would kill a rat or a lizard, just to be doing it.”
She recalled witnessing rebel fighters killing civilians by the dozens after looting their homes. She spoke of men who were forced to watch their wives and daughters being raped by rebel fighters. She described the scene of army officers and others captured in their homes by rebels who gorged their bodies and placed their intestines upon the front door of their homes. At one point, she said she was held by rebel warriors distrustful of any army officer. They taunted her by firing shots around her head. “They were rough with me,” she said. “But they didn’t kill me. No bullet ever touched me.”
While she escaped death on that occasion, she said, matters had become increasingly dangerous. Any neighbor, friend or even a fellow member of the army fearing their own death, might alert the rebel bandits of her whereabouts. As a senior military officer she was, after all, prized plunder. Upon hearing that her life was in danger, she fled to Liberia’s countryside with her three children. “I saw my own officers being killed,” she said. “I had to escape to survive.”
Within a few short years, her 16-year-old son, the eldest, was killed in the war, her husband had deserted her and her life was in shambles. But while away from Monrovia, she visited Buchannan, the city where her late mother had lived and had, before her death, taken in a dozen or more children left by impoverished parents or orphaned by the war. She decided to continue her mother’s mission and manage the orphanage.
Roughly 250,000 Liberians were killed in the country’s civil war and many thousands more fled the fighting. The conflict left the country in economic ruin. As peace and calm started to settle into the country founded in the 1820s by freed black Americans, Ms. Bono eventually made her way back to the capital and, as she put it, liberation from hell. In 2003, she became a brigadier general, a first for a woman. She retired from that post in 2006 and became an aide to Ms. Johnson-Sirleaf.
Today, she manages many of the arrangements and preparations for events for the president. At the same time she has expanded the orphanage that she named after her mother, traveling on weekends to Buchannan, about 90 miles from here.
Today, the Catherine Memorial Orphanage takes care of some 50 children with assistance from Christian Aid Ministries. She says she is blessed to have her life and a superb job, in a country where unemployment is staggering. “Working with the president is exciting because she is someone who really enjoys her job.
Still, she lives a quiet life, she says. She takes care of her 19-year-old son, her three-year-old grandson who is the son of her 23-year-old daughter, who lives in Canada. She goes to the Pentecostal church in the Sinkor section of Monrovia. She prays and she aches unceasingly for her dead son, she added. More than anything, she says, she thanks God throughout the day and night just to be alive.
“The sad truth,” she said, relaxing on the couch after a meal of palm butter and rice, a Liberian staple, “is that I don’t even know what this war was really all about. I don’t know if it was a political war, an ethnic war or whatever. I just know that nothing good was accomplished. I just thank God every single day for bringing me through it.”
By Jonathan P. Hicks


Wow, great story! It makes me wonder what sort of things she was forced to do during the war as a high ranking official in the Army: “I did things to survive that I thought I would never do.”
This is a very touching story. I appreciate Bono’s inner strength and endurance, to bring her to a place of giving back. After such a long time of suffering, she could have easily have retreated within, where she could have been solely concerned for her own well being. But in tribute to her mother, she selflessly decided to maintain the orfanage in her mother’s legacy. Very interesting blog.
What also caught my attention is the idea of anarchy and civil war becoming the results of economic collapse. Fortunately the financial crash of 1929 did not have the same result. Good Job Mr. Hicks.
Wow! Such a strong spirited Woman! She radiates pure strength. Wonderful story.
Very well done…This is a great story of Bono’s courage and strength. Her story is a testament to the resilience of the Liberian people. I’m glad she had this platform to tell her story.
However, while reading this, I could help but to be a little ashamed because - honestly - I didn’t even know that Liberia was involved in a civil war for 15 years; let alone the damage that it caused. This story paints an ugly (but necessary) picture of how damaging Liberia’s civil war was to that country. And the worst part of it all…is that the people of Liberia (or at least Bono) feel the war was for nothing. Very sad…
Talk about a progressive country!
If there are any Black female Brigadier Generals in the United States Military, I sure don’t know about it. This is yet another incredible story of courage, fearlessness and perseverance.
New York City and the world at large thank you for these wonderful stories Mr. Hicks!
Wonderful message about the strength and humility of a black woman. That is another thing that I really appreciate this blog for highlighting. With the current Liberian President being a woman and the numerous courageous stories like this that live in such a great country it truly shows progress on so many levels. What an inspiration to many, female or male!